Humility and Wisdom

Humility and Wisdom

To all it has happened to us, in each circle of frequent practitioners of any religion that there is someone who attributes to himself as a leader, who believe themselves to be the best believers and who usually stand out for correcting the novice. I've met in my life dozens of believers and practitioners of different ages who seem not to know what is really humility, to the point where so-called "Ego" has become one of our daily bread.

The true believer is humble, responsible, positive, willing and above all, respectful of the beliefs of others. It is a fact that very often young people think they know more than adults by becoming something cynical and even very critical, and very often we make a mistake even worse: following the example of these adults who are usually not just a nice example of humility and equality.

The true believer of the old religion is one who focuses his power to do good and his knowledge to help others, even without them knowing, the true believer is humble, diplomatic and foremost speaks with pride of their own beliefs while respecting those of others. The true believers are to be role models for their community and for their Coven, never promote evil, and by more anger or sadness they feel at anytime they must be able to control their anger and never reveal any kind of curses to anyone for any reason.

The real practitioner when he or she gets angry, does it with humility and respect, bless their enemies even at the worst times and in all circumstances before taking any position or decision thinks:

What will my ancestors think of what I am about to do?.

For the ancestors look after us in every moment of our life and even later, we must show them respect and love, make them feel proud of what we do every day and do everything with love, wisdom and respect for others, you should never make decisions hastily, never make decisions when you're angry, and for no reason make decisions without thinking about how you can influence your future.

Humility is not a right, it is a duty and as such it should be respected and promoted above all. It is true that many different religions and beliefs criticize us, but we must never demean or degrade by an unknown faith on the contrary we have to do it is stand up proudly and show that we can live together in peace in spite of our differences.

Do not criticize or disqualify the different beliefs or thoughts and neither denigrate or humiliate others, because every time you raise your voice to humiliate someone else you just prove how insignificant and empty you really feel.

Act with Wisdom & Humility before all times...

From my Book: Rites of Happiness

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Learning to Live Day to Day

Learning to Live Day to Day

To exist is easy, getting up in the morning, drinking a cup of coffee and go to work, be returned in evening exhausted and wanting to sleep alone to wait for the next day, the difficulty is in not exist.

The difficult thing is to live and knowing how to do it, learning to get up a good mood every morning and thanking this new day has come, wondering what news and new experiences will come to us within 24 hours is not only drinking coffee, is to perceive the strong smell and taste it every morning to see if I gets better or equal to the one before, going to work and trying to prevail in a good mood, being there for those who need you and remembering at all times that this day we are living is the day you yesterday surely  didn't stop worrying about.

 To exist, anyone can do that. Rocks exist, the walls exist, they are there and you can go hit them. Your clothes exist too, they are there, you can touch them and if you want, even burn them, but do not be like rocks or clothing. Do not only exist, learn to live, really live, live and let live, take risks, cry, laugh and feel, not let consume you routine, allows the universe to show you its wisdom, breathe and get up again.

For every two times you fall try to get up three times, do not give up on the day to day, do not become part of that routine that made you forget your purpose,. Learn to live as if you were going to be here forever. Do not let the happiness hit the door twice, take a chance to know it smile back and allow it enter, not only at home, but also in your life, in your day to day, and let the universe take your sorrows. Cease to exist to start to live.

We live in an "overpopulated" world, full of billions of people, but how many of them can really say that they are alive? How many of these Billions of people can really say that they are alive and enjoy their day by day? Life is magical, life is full of opportunities, days and nights, of thoughts and memories. Life is full of love and pain. In this, the rare science that is life, knowing how to choose what we really want in our day to day, and what they really do not want at any time, knowing how to choose and use every moment is to do it as if it were the last.

Today I feel full. I can honestly say that I am happy and I feel good about myself. I'm doing what I want with my time and my life. As a personal anecdote I confess by heart that previous years have been bad to me, as bad as many others, and right now I feel I am in the light of my way. At some time was lost in a shadow that I made, wrapped in my own fears, surrounded by people who I loved but only stayed with me for other interests.

In those years I learned to surround myself with my own enemies preferring pain and constant sadness of the mistreatment than having to start again from scratch. The personal pain and isolation were turning me into a cold person and lacking of desire to continue, until one day in the early morning hours I said "enough" and decided to leave everything, leave the shadows and begin to see life in a different way. I decided I would strive to take the reins of my way starting a project, reconnect with old friends, making new friends also. I started this book, and left behind everything I did not want in my life, places, possessions, memories, people and more. I decided to eradicate the fear that many have and to step upfront, towards the light. I began to live, complete my day dreams. Now I surround myself with positive people every day and I choose what I want to live.

Even today negative people surround me. Many of these people are really dark beings with nothing to live for, nothing to believe in, but that's life. The universe gives you everything, good and bad, it's your decision to choose what you want in your path. I have strengthened the belief that the cosmos acts as a mirror of a very broad spectrum, you ask what you want on it will grant you, but you also must open your eyes and realize that when opportunities present themselves, you must learn to fill your days with positive thoughts, good memories, mental pictures of all those important moments for you. To learn to live is not that hard, you just have to have the courage to take risks.

Every day I see people walking down the streets and try to imagine how will their lives be based on what I see. I see strong, happy people, walking seems like a huge rainbow of light and energy flooding the streets, living in the moment and that is to the naked eye, but I also see gray people, those beings who walk to and from their boring jobs tired, living life just by living, complaining of the day, like vampires walking by shadows and consuming every bit of joy that surrounds them.

It is depressing. If you don't care and distract you from your path, you can end up being like those people, without dreams, without hope of anything interesting happening tomorrow, without craving to do something again, in no mood to have something big happening to you.

These people do not live life, it is clear that life is living out of them. Life has begun removing energy from them energy daily steals their spirits, and many of these individuals do not even realize it, it is a truly despicable attitude. Sometime I also followed that path, but the spiritual teachings and the guidance of the Gods taught me and guided me down the light side of the road that was seemingly always across the dark street where and I walked into account I had fallen because I was busy dying slowly due to the routine of my life.

Forget to live halfway, forget the eternal boredom of doing the same thing every day. Like all I also I have a job, I have had many, but life has taught me to turn routines into a positive experience from day to day. I fill my days of new music, discussions of interesting topics with anyone who crosses my path. I entertain myself in my free time visiting museums and art galleries, discovering parks and reading books of my favorite authors like Jules Gabriel Verne, Paulo Coelho and Katherine Neville, looking to make new friends whom to share with at all times. If you add small doses of this your day, you will realize that life if it's worth and is much more than a boring day.

Every day we must try to become that person we wanted to be when we were kids, not becoming these people than we were even ashamed of when growing up.

Do not let life make you a slave again. Do not get old with frustrations about things you could have done and did not do. Turn the moment into an experience to remember and thus arriving at old age will not be so tedious.

Happiness is there waiting, but do not expect to reach it seated, you must surround yourself with positive people who do not live of gossip and stories. Treasure every moment and every good gesture towards you, and give the value they deserve to everyone that surrounds you.

Do not wait until tomorrow to start living, the right time is now, the right day is today. Cemeteries are full of souls who did nothing but wait until the next day to start living their lives, and now are still waiting for their turn to rejoin the cycle.

We must live every minute. Get kinky, let yourself feel, look for love and feel that curiosity when you try something new. Don't wait for death by the clock, like there is no reason to live. Even death will feel sorry for you.

Life is for you, and for you alone. Do not live for anyone else, live for yourself. Seek to accomplish your goals, dare to dream and fight for those dreams. Life belongs to those who have decided to to take it into their own hands and squeeze it in the best way, not those who are waiting for the day to be over to go to bed and wait for the next.

If you are not happy is because you yourself have not wanted to be, you must try it. You should get excited and follow your impulses. Seek to live without fear and without excuses or promises of tomorrow.

Learn to be positive at all times. Stay away from those negative, deceitful or manipulative people around you. It is inappropriate to say that we have or have had a bad day, if you live a bad moment, then it is up to you if you exceed or choose to take the bad time and turn it into a whole day.

If you have a rant, get away from everything and everyone, do not let them see you. Calm down, breathe, focus on your goals and plan how to improve your mood. Sometimes it is best to take this difficult decision that we fear so much, relax and get up, we all fall but rising is required.

Live, but Live for Yourself, So Live Doesn't Live Out of You.

From Book: "Wicca! Love & Soul"
Author: Elhoim Leafar © Copyright
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Opportunities Go & Opportunities Remain

Opportunities Go & Opportunities Remain

“Life gives you surprises, surprises gives you life, oh God” so says a popular song. Particularly I have always believed otherwise. Life never gives us surprises, life does not give us anything we can not face. The truth is that life gives us opportunities, opportunities for growth, opportunities for change, opportunities for advancement and opportunities for rebirth. It is up to us to use them or not.

Opportunities come to us every day disguised as a thousand different forms, from the most subtle to the less discreet ways. The universe will always deliver signs but you must pay sufficient attention to interpret them and decide whether to follow or not.

These signs will always announce changes, and no matter if you think they are good omens or very bad omens, changes are always good, but Sometimes we get so afraid to leave the idealized comfort zone that we prefer to avoid change for believing that it may not be so good.

The universal truth is that nothing is fixed, nor the universe itself stands still. Actually the universe is in constant change so we must try to adapt best to the situation.

To see the signs we must just pay attention to our surroundings, these are always covered by omens that favor us so we always be prepared at what lies ahead.

Seers have a special quality to anticipate certain events, give visual jumps forward and back to announce the future, but if you're not a seer or a qualified astrologer, it does not mean you can not be aware of the signs.

The constant change of the clouds, the movements in the water or the shine in the flame of a candle, the universe will always announce the future and the future will always be full of opportunities, some more attractive than others. It is wise to know when to wait but when the Opportunity presents, that opportunity of change or progress yo expect so much, do not hesitate and embrace it like never before you had clung to anything because many opportunities only come once.

Life is full of People who remember us every day “I could do this or that but I did not.” Do a favor to me, do a favor to those around you, do a favor of thanking to the universe and more importantly, do this favor for yourself, do not become one of those people, live and take every opportunity you have to learn something new that you could possibly want., study a new profession or a new idea and carry it out.

Do not doubt yourself, motivate yourself to be someone better every day. Motivate yourself to succeed on your own without being dependent on anyone else. Do not hesitate to take advantage of the help they give you and never say no to an opportunity if you do not know it will return.

Opportunities come every day, but every opportunity gives you something new, if you do not take advantage of that, someone else will, and after that there is only regret, that feeling of emptiness and self-deception, that bad taste every time you say “If I had done that”...

From my Book Wicca! Love&Soul

Keep Faith in Difficult Times

Keep Faith in Difficult Times

Faith is for many a simple almost unknown and unlikely means to believe in something. If you ask many people you will notice that most consider "faith" as believing something that is beyond, maybe more than one will answer you "have faith that things will change," but we are in constant questions What is faith and how does it serve us?

I'm a true believer, I believe in the universe, I believe in science, I believe in humanity and above all, believe in the Divinity, in God.

I believe in the existence of an awesome God watering every centimeter of the Cosmos with its unlimited daily love. For me that is faith.

Knowing that there is an incalculable power beyond my understanding and comprehension not only motivates me to keep going every day, it gives me the strength to go over every obstacle and gives me the inner peace of mind knowing that no matter what happens, Everything will get fixed.

For many young I am someone that perhaps ignores the hardships of life, but in a society like the one we live in is actually quite difficult for even the most innocent child to retain his innocence. We live in a world of warriors, a world that every day becomes more difficult, a world that every day presents new evidence, a world that every day seeks (and sometimes finds) unique ways to test our faith.

Do you need more evidence? Whatever happens you are still alive, you are still here, the universe expands, the Sun shines every morning, the Moon blankets you with its light, Need more proof that God is still there without losing their faith in Us?

It can be difficult, that's true, and no one can tell you otherwise, but who said life would be easy ?, life did not come with instructions, no one gave us a handbook at birth. Life is full of obstacles.

What a terrible experience when something does not go as we want! If feels so bad when we lose a chance and how unpleasant is that taste when you realize that you have spent months, even years working on something that did not give you the results you expected.

But... On the contrary, it is nice to feel that something goes well, that beautiful feeling when we are at the top of the mountain, feel the breeze on our face and look down, we see all these obstacles that we have passed and we see others that come up along the same path, this is when we feel more alive than ever, this is when we thank God for His support and strength, this is when the sun shines and you feel it so close that burns your skin, that's when you realize that what most motivated you... was never losing faith.

This is faith, and we all have associated it with something, we have faith in the studies, faith in our children, faith in the morning, faith that something wonderful awaits us just around the corner, even when we lose a loved one, the faith to believe that we will meet again somewhere else is what allows us to continue with our lives.

Faith is related to perseverance, like that old saying "he who perseveres wins" says But what is that which helps us to persevere? what most if not the faith that we can achieve something, without faith of being able to achieve it we would not mind to keep trying o to be sitting home watching soap operas.

Material from my Book "Rites Of Happiness: Secrets, Spells and Reflections".

Available here

Breathe & Get Up

Breathe & Get Up

Every day we open our eyes to wake up, we start a routine that prepares us to assume the daily responsibilities, work, school, children, home, and who knows? all those responsibilities that we can have each of us.

Everyone, everyone ... You yourself have your own obligations and only you know them, only you can fulfill them, but sometimes (perhaps too often) come to believe that you are saturated of obligations and can not handle exceeding your control. The truth is quite the contrary, the truth is that the Universe will never give you more than you can handle.

The truth is that God puts these long and persistent trials to test on the day to day. Nothing and no one prepares us for life, we never got any kind of manual and neither did our parents get one when they raised us.

Life itself is a manual for daily reading and study. Every day it prepares you for the next. Each day the universe hands you new tests and is constantly changing the rules without notice.

Life has tested all of us in one way or another, to take us to reach the perfection of human maturity, help us become stronger every day. From dawn to dusk you have faced a minimum of 12 hours, 12 hours full of trials, setbacks, disappointments and blows that life gives us as if it were a duel.

From childhood our parents call us “Champions” because the truth is that's what we are. Each and every one of us is a champion in his own way in life that persists and persists in the trials, goes forward, falls and rises.

Since the first 9 months of life in the womb of our mothers we are facing all kinds of conditions that put us at risk and test our capabilities.

Growing up we keep passing these tests in education and work, and even in our personal relationships also often test us but in turn strengthen us, teach us and help us move although in many cases the progress can be more painful what many believe to actually endure.

Is there any solution? The truth is that yes, there is, the solution to these tests is on a daily basis, it is in your hands and it is in your experiences and memories.

Life is like a rock that requires constant pressure which takes its resistance to the limit and when the pressure finally believes to be winning the battle and is supposed to be about to burst the rock... This has become a beautiful diamond.

That's how life works: It tests us takes our weaknesses, studies them, squeezes them and thus brings us to our limits, and this is when we believe we are at the worst time we realize that there is only one way to keep that calm so necessary to continue... Breathing and Getting up...

So easy to say, hard is it remember it in these difficult times, but if you keep faith in yourself and what you can accomplish, breathing and getting up again becomes a key to the huge success that will allow safety forward even when many consider you defeated.

Breathing calmly and getting up from the ground when you consider yourself defeated encourages you to follow and sometimes in this calm you discover your mistakes and errors being able to fix them or worst case scenario, of turning the matter. Stay calm, do not lose faith, do not lose hope... Are you on the ground?

Well, my advice is ... Up these moods, Breathe & Get up because only losers remain on the floor and since childhood they have been telling you what you really are: a champion in all its glory.

Material from my Book "Rites Of Happiness: Secrets, Spells and Reflections".

Available here